Another Condolence I shouldn't have to Give

On February 14th, another monster set foot on another campus - Northern Illinois University in DeKalb, Illinois - and shot at another crop of students who were better than him in every way. He killed five of them, and wounded another sixteen, before ending his own life.

I've already said all I'm going to say on the subject of these evil, merciless men who've done evil, inexcusable things. I just wanted to offer my condolences to the families of the deceased and my comforts to the wounded and the families of the wounded.

A Belated Condolence

I'd like to offer my sincere condolences to the students of Jokela High School in Tuusula, Finland. The horror that was visited on Dawson College, Polytechnique, Concordia, Virginia Tech and Columbine has crossed the ocean and once again given us a glimpse into the monstrous evil that some people are capable of. My sympathies go out to the victims and my unforgiving rage goes out to those who'd blame this on society rather than the individual with the weapon. Malum Futurus.

I had planned to write a lengthy piece detailing my thoughts on the event, but I found that I could not; there simply is not much to say about it, other than that it is Evil, that it is one of the most terrible things that could ever happen and that it is a perfect example of why school security should be either trained and armed police officers (as they were at my high school) or armed, well-trained security guards who've passed psych exams, background checks aswell as gun-safety and marksmanship tests.

Let this man's name be forgotten, in the end, as I have endeavoured to condemn to obscurity the monster who attacked Dawson College.

Humility & Respect

I will not be at the commemoration ceremonies at Dawson today. I do not have the right to be there; I was not present 365 days ago when a monster opened fire on unarmed, defenceless students in one of the most evil acts I have witnessed in my lifetime – albeit remotely. The girl I love was, and she will be there today.

It is a terrifying thing that a single day can be forever tainted by the actions of a single man and I will not, as is my custom, oppose the social current with vehemence and anger. I have only sympathy & sadness & mourning in my heart, today. My memories of September 13^th, 2006 are crisp, clear and unbearably painful even a year after the fact.

One would be right in asking me how, if I was absent from the events themselves that can possibly be the case. The answer is not so difficult.

I believed that the woman I loved was dead.

For two hours, when I could not reach her and no one I could reach had seen or heard from her – when her mother called me, looking for her – I feared the worst. I became lame, useless at work and inconsolable. My boss; a kind, sympathetic & intelligent man, allowed my professional delinquency. I spent hours that seemed like days making frantic phone calls, tracking down every soul in the school who might know where she, my girlfriend, really was.

I was rude & insulting to very many friends, that day, hanging up the moment I got an answer – always one that I didn't want – and barking questions at them without ever saying hello, or asking about their welfare.

I am happy to say that they have since forgiven me; I may not have been so kind. I am proud to know these people who've overcome an experience which could not have been less than an order of magnitude worse than my own, if that might illustrate how horrific a day 9/13 truly was.

I tip my hat to them. I bow my head to them. I give them my mourning & respect and humble recognition of their right to be on Campus today; it is not mine and I have no wish to claim it. The way that these people have handled themselves in the wake of this horrible tragedy is exemplary and embarrassing in contrast to my own wracking survivor's guilt.

We mustn't forget this day. We cannot forget the grace and serenity with which those who lived through the attack have overcome terrible emotional anguish to be able to function in a world that moved on before it had a right to.

Most of all, we must never forget that the man who attacked students and young adults on that day was an evil monster, that the ultimate responsibility for the tragedy falls with him and that he must never be made a victim of the same society that created the exemplary people he injured.